exasperatedBut here is something else I want to share. My friends from
raingazer might recognize this as something very similar to what I posted awhile ago. The choice of words is blunt but I agree with every single one completely. And the poster over at the meme is getting attacked by a complete lunatic whose arguments are not even making any sense!! What? Oh no. No no, I'm not getting in there to defend anyone or anything! I'm the kind that likes to stand on the sidelines and watch others make fools of themselves heh. *sheepish* What I WILL do is re-post the comment verbatim here - not anonymously obviously, and with a polite shout-out to whoever this person is. Girl you're so right and I so agree! And the fact that you hardly got any flak for your comment (barring the crazy person) is because most of us do agree and those that don't at least realize that they may not be completely in the right with this one. Or maybe they just didn't see the meme yet, which is definitely the better choice of 'em all! These things make for bloody addictive entertainment man, like reality tv! Anyway, here's the comment: People who think that Jensen and Jared are fucking, solely based on what they do and say in public, at cons, or in interviews have clearly never seen regular guy friends interact with each other. Believe it or not, guys hug each other. They pick on each other, by calling each other names and stuff. They even do stupid things like what Jared did in the video from forever ago.
NORMAL GUY FRIENDS DO THESE THINGS. JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE BOTH SMOKING HOT, THEY GET ALONG WITH EACH OTHER, AND THEY MAY OR MAY NOT BE LIVING WE EACH OTHER(cause c'mon, who the fuck really knows) DOES NOT PROVE THAT ONE OF THEM IS TAKING IT UP THE ASS EVERY NIGHT FROM THE OTHER.
And another thing. Don't hate Danneel just because Jensen's fucking her and not you. Hate her because she's a bitch or a bad actress or something. I personally don't hate her at all cause I have no reason to. Just like most of the other girls here who do. A lot of you have no proof. You just read what some pissed off fan writes and you believe it. You've never met her before so you really don't know how she is in RL. In general, just get the fuck over the fact that Jensen will never give you the pleasure.
*nods* Uh-uh. The more you bitch about Danneel or Genevieve, the more I like them. Adore them really. And not only do guys tend to mess around like this normally, they are guaranteed to exaggerate this buffoonish behavior if they have an audience. It's just shocking to me that some women in this fandom don't know this.
PS: De-friending amnesty is still on, you know, just in case you need to...
oh never mind... :)
PS: 21st July is not that far away!! How're you feeling? :)
God, I LOVE Genevieve and Jared together. I think they're an insanely hot couple. I'm just kind of glad to be able to say that somewhere without fearing the response *eep*
Jared and Gen are so cute together. And so are Jensen and Danneel, yeah. But honestly I don't really care, one way or another. Date whoever you want to dudes .. and dudettes.. *shrugs* :)
You see? This, RIGHT HERE, is why I'm pondering to get the fuck out of the fandom.
My life sucks enough for me not to need reasons for it to SUCK MORE.
Sorry, babes, didn't mean to spam your Lj with my own problems.
Just know that I'm clinging at you as tight as ever, because I firmly believe that everyone is entitled to her/his own opinion.
We were a free thinker world last time I checked.
Fuck, am I disgusted.
I don't know if I have skin thick enough to brave a personal attack, that's why I asked people to not tell me if they see my name or my bb there, heh. How's that for wimp? *sighs* :)
I had no idea there was wank but to be honest, it doesn't even surprise me.
As much as I like the show I'm glad I got away from the fandom, I have enough problems in my life I don't need fandom wank to make it even worse :')
As for your friend's comments, I couldn't agree more. I've been on both sides of the 'celeb' table and talking to a person at a con or a signing or even getting your pic taken with them does NOT mean you know them. It boggles the mind the way some can jump to conclusions based on some public displays of affection. Of course guys behave this way... you only have to be on the planet for a short while to know this.
So, I have some thinking to do on the matter, but at the moment, I'm ready to wash my hands of the fandom at large and stick to my own flist and people I actually enjoy hearing from. :) I'll continue to enjoy the show and the fic in my own little bubble where it's pleasant and safe. lol
LOL! When you put it like that.. :D But you know they must have feelings too. I bet the whole PETJA thing hurt Jensen somehow and that's why he had it taken down. I was totally with him on that btw, that website was disgusting! He even took a potshot at the fans with the whole "Right, you love her" comment about Danneel recently.
Anyway, segue aside, I'm glad to see all sane people on my list so far hehe! :)
I actually really like Daneel, she seems a really nice girl and I know Jensen loves her because the look on his face when he spoke of her at Asylum said it all.
I love Danneel! I loved her as Rachel in OTH a whole year before I got into SPN :)
ROTFL!!! Exactly my dear!! You're articulate as ever! :) And you're also right about the meme getting more attention that it deserves. I just can't help but feel disgusted by how this fandom reacts to the girlfriends and talks about the guys' personal lives like they know all about it. Seriously, how deluded can you fucking be? I used to try and rationalize this behavior once, but after 3 yrs, have no compassion left for this particular brand of psychosis anymore.
And um, sorry I just needed to vent! And sorry you have to bear the brunt of it hon :)
Danneel or Genevieve dont be deserved to be hated on because of who they sleep with. I feel bad for them a lot. I honestly dont care who the boys date as long as they are happy
And you know your Bigbang was totally kickass and I've seen it recced a couple of places and it still has some of the most fucking amazing imagery ever. :) Just sayin'.
And yeah, tinhats. ::sigh:: I love squeeing and jumping around and saying "they're totally doing it!" but God knows I can tell when it's time to stop fooling around and take a good hard look at reality. Which is, based on the criteria people are establishing for a J2 relationship, I'm fucking at least four people because of the time I spend with them. Seriously.
Edit: And OMG how did I not notice your new header? :D :D ::squees:: OMG, it's from your BB and it is SO PRETTY. LOVE it.
Edited at 2009-07-15 07:31 pm (UTC)
Dont know what anything about latest anonymous wank meme.
much to my satisfaction, mostly cause i tend to react strongly when people somehow escape from the mental hospital and get a hold of a computer to write a stupid comment, and I ofc *cough* HAVE to answer... XD
And it tend not to end well if i get a stupid or generally idiotic comment back.. I mean i'll just take it out on my poor pencils! seriously have a load of them thats broken in half... XD
....with that being said maybe i should admit myself to a mental hospital..XD
And if i had a hat, i would take it of for for the person who wrote the comment Well spoken! or written.... xD
And really if someone wrote shit about yours or anyone else big bang, theyre clearly jealous , i mean all people can write but judging by the people that write this stupid comments, not many people can write as good as you guys.
So i'll take my hat off for you too and all the big bang writers!.... well i would.. if i had a hat... should i get one? just so i can take it off? xD
gosh such a long comment, sorry if your eyes started bleeding by the sheer craziness of my comment xD
Take care hun!
No need to admit yourself to a mental hospital hon - you're probably one of the sanest people I've come across in this fandom! Of course I'm counting myself as one of those too and using myself as the benchmark, so hopefully you don't think I need to go to a mental hospital either hehe :D
I love your comment sweetie! This is the brand of insanity I absolutely adore and wish everyone would switch to instead of going psycho on the boys and their girlfriends :D *smishes* :D
I think part of my feelings of ill-ease is due to the fact that I know my friend hasn't seen this meme and it hurts me that she may do.
They don't know her, they don't know what she's been through in her real life of late or about the comfort writing brings to her (and to other who do choose to read her fic) but still they found the need to slate her and use her Lj name in the process...would I have felt differently if they hadn't used her LJ username? No, not at all.
If I don't like something that vehemently I wouldn't read it, watch it etc. We all have a choice. I can never understand why some people feel the need to hurt others by expressing their dislike of something in that manner. Constructive criticism is one thing but pure spitefulness for entertainment sake is another.
But wow, someone sending you a link is just forcing you into it. I'm so sorry your friend got attacked there personally hon. I hope that she doesn't find out because damn ignorance is bliss! But if by chance she does, I hope you will support her and she will have the strength to see it for what it is - a limited opinion based in nothing but hatred and jealousy. They would have made anyone a target, anyone at all.
Oi and PLEASE don't delete your LJ - why would you do that?!? *hugs*